Some Thoughts About Science

          I can remember a church that was suspicious of science, preferring to rely on things that seemed more religious. However, in recent years there have been pockets of the church that have begun to view science as a valuable ally. Some have even formed specialized sciences like Christian psychology or what is referred to as creationism.

          It would be unfortunate if we are allowing ourselves to believe we need the strategies of the world in order to support our worldview. It would be even more unfortunate if we manipulate these strategies or cherry pick facts in an effort to make our worldview more convincing.

          We can all agree that it is a problem when science disregards objectivity to support positions that are morally suspect or for political advantage. We should also agree that it is a problem to treat the Bible as some science text to validate our new pet science. It seems that those inside the church and those on the outside are willing to hi-jack science in the hopes it is a credible voice for their position.

          A Christian worldview is not dependent on scientific agreement with others. I have an interest in science and am certainly no science denier. I have always been fascinated with the sciences like biology and botany and astronomy. I am also fascinated by sciences like tectonic plate theory and paleontology and evolution. My fascination with science allows me to engage in conversation and even question where the data is coming from or for what reason. Science is an evolving thing. New data is constantly being collected and scientists are constantly tweaking their theories. Why spend time arguing with someone about something that may change by next week?

          Our Christian worldview does not permit us to belittle or ridicule people who espouse different opinions than we do. That is a certain way for us to lose trust. Who will want to listen to what we have to say if we are not considered trustworthy? It is important to remember who it is we represent.

          Science addresses different questions than the questions addressed by the Bible. It would be good to remember this. Likewise, it is important to remember the Bible addresses different questions than science. We hinder the mission of the church and cheat the world when we confuse the two.

          It is not possible to understand all the data out there in the world of science, people will be looking for reliable messengers to make sense of the world. The role of the church is to learn to tell our story well. To become faithful tellers of the story that makes sense of the world.

A Quote

“Lash yourself to a child and be prepared to see things you have stopped looking for. Get ready to notice things you have taught yourself to ignore. Learn again what you have forgotten. Become as a child, that is your ticket to the kingdom.”

Surprise! It is Good to Get Outside

Last Sunday, the Patriot News shared an article citing the American Academy of Pediatrics and the recommendation for playing outside. Here is a list of benefits for children;

*Better school performance. Time spent in nature and increased fitness improve cognitive function.

*More creativity. Outdoor play uses and nurtures the imagination.

*Much higher levels of fitness. Kids are more active when they are outdoors.

*More friends. Children who organize their own games and participate in unstructured group activities are less solitary and learn to interact with their peers.

*Less depression and hyperactivity. Time in nature is soothing, improves mood and reduces stress. It can also increase kids’ attention span, because things move at a slower pace than they do on the screen.

*Stronger bones. Exposure to natural light helps prevent vitamin D deficiency, making outdoorsy children less vulnerable to bone problems, cardiovascular disease, diabetes and other health issues.

*Improved eyesight. Time spent outdoors can help combat increasing diagnoses of nearsightedness.

*Better sleep. Exposure to natural light, and lots of physical activity, help reset a child’s natural sleep rhythms.

*A longer life span and healthier adult life. Active kids are more likely to grow into active adults.

Seeds, Soils and the Family Soul

I was recently asked to speak at a retreat and given a dual assignment of addressing the family and a text from the gospels – a parable about a sower, seeds and soils. Other texts may come to mind more quickly or seem more appropriate when we think about family. Yet I rather like it when the church puts us in a conversation with the text that does not seem to naturally fit and then expects us to proceed.

The family may not be the first thing we think of when we read the parable, yet the family is always a context where we attempt to apply the text. The family is a field where we learn much about the Christian faith. In the family we scatter seed in the hope of growing fruit. The family is a field where we learn how to relate to one another and to the world and to God.

Perhaps the family is a perfect context to speak of people as soil. In a family we plant, nurture, feed, water and weed – all in the hope that growth might occur. This may be as good a place as any to point out that it is not our end goal to grow happy, productive people. Our end goal is not to turn you into awesome parents with successful marriages and perfect children. It’s not that we are opposed to such things. It’s just that this is a church retreat and we have much bigger goals. We are raising disciples.

It is basic thought about families and texts to be attentive to what is present and what is not. It is important to realize that the entire system is influenced by who is present or who is absent. This is important to know because the family is dependent on the way the individual pieces work together. Behaviors and actions and words of any one individual will significantly affect the others. The text works the same way. The presence of rocks, thorns, and birds make a difference. Shallow roots, worldly worries and the presence of Satan make a difference. This is not a chance adventure. This is a context where it is important to be intentional. This is where seed grows.

As an aside, it follows the family should be very careful about who is invited into the system. A pet, X Box, cell phones, Netflix, fantasy football, a Visa card, Jack Daniels… these things may seem like casual accessories. But they will fight to become influential in the family system.

A common theme in the family and the parable is growth. When one looks at the reasons for growth or lack of growth in the text it appears to be the type of soil and what is attracted to these soils. In the family it is not birds, rocks or weeds that prevent growth. That would be convenient. When things aren’t going well to blame it on the stinking rocks, lousy weeds, angry birds. Instead we must be intentional about who and what is invited into the family.

We do not want to overlook the cosmic struggle in the parable. In both parable and family we may be interacting with seed, thorns and rocky ground, but also Satan. In what we thought was an ordinary farmer’s field – Satan shows up. In what seems like the everyday activities of raising a family – Satan shows up. The fact is, Satan wants your family. There is a cosmic battle of supernatural forces engaged against one another for our families. If we ever have doubts about whether our families have value, that alone should convince us we are wrong.

While Jesus may not be talking explicitly about family here, he is not really talking about farming either. Jesus often seems to be talking about some subject and then we learn he is actually talking about the Good News of the kingdom. In fact, when Jesus starts talking in parables, Matthew tells us he is sharing secrets of the kingdom.

We do not want to forget the parable is a kingdom story. We read the parables and are put immediately into a context of competing kingdoms. Allegiance is an issue that we must wrestle with. We will be choosing a king. Even an examination of family is within the context of kingdom. It does not escape us that the parable follows a discussion about family. “Who is My mother and who are My brothers? And stretching out His hand toward His disciples, He said, Behold My mother and My brothers!  For whoever does the will of My Father who is in heaven, he is My brother and sister and mother.” This family discussion and the parable share space in Matthew, Mark and Luke’s Gospel. Yes, family is kingdom discussion. It is noteworthy that the bio family takes a backseat to the family that does the will of the Father in heaven. The text presents us with an unorthodox definition of family.

The parable carries some significance for Matthew, Mark and Luke all include it. And it is always the out front parable. We are challenged to “Listen.” It may be noteworthy that Jesus starts telling us to listen in the gospel and in Revelation he is still telling us to listen. Perhaps it is implied that we are not only to start listening but are then to never stop listening.

Listening is a big concern in both text and family. Perhaps a tangent is in order; let us talk about the discipline of listening. Let me guess, your children do not listen. Let me guess again, you do not listen to your children. And again, you fall into a trap of thinking that listening to your child is the same as agreement. You feel that listening is the same as giving in to your child’s demands.

This is worthwhile conversation. While the text is interested in listening to words of Jesus, we want to acknowledge what I will call “spillover.” I hope the following helps with what I intend as spillover. 1) We are to love God. 2) We learn that spillover of loving God insists on loving one another. 3) This love is not to stop with loving other followers; we are to love our neighbors as well. 4) This spillover does not stop here; we are to even love our enemies. Thus, while there is not an explicit text that tells us to listen to one another, I suggest that the spillover causes us to listen to one another (including our children). I am suggesting that as followers of Jesus, we become respectful people who graciously are interested in what others have to say (even when we are not in agreement). When the text does not give an answer to the particular situations of our lives, the spillover can help us determine how we should respond. Listening becomes an activity of discipleship.

As this conversation concludes, I suggest the family is a laboratory for discipleship. I am glad we gather as church. For some reason the text is intent on an unorthodox view of family. The text may suggest then that we are gathered as family. We gather as those who desire to do the will of the Father in heaven. This unorthodox New Testament definition of family cannot help but spillover into our bio families. There we are to share the secrets of the kingdom.

A Field Note for Today

Another short field note from Participant: Field Notes from Here and Now.

“Luke the gospel writer tells of a time when disciples were rebuking children. In contrast, Jesus hands the children the keys to the kingdom and says, “Whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it at all.” With this in mind, why aren’t we following our children around more closely in an effort to learn the kingdom secrets?

Have you ever listened in on a conversation between children? Ever watched them engage in play? Ever been fascinated by their imagination? Ever wish you could look at the world with that same sense of awe and wonder? I have two children, Karissa and Keightley. More often than not, I have tried to convince myself I know more than they do on things that matter. Luke suggests I should not be so sure. Sometimes I am seeking information when I should be seeking wonder. Children have a knack of living on the edge of possibility. We should be serving as apprentices to our children in the hopes that we discover more wonder and that we enter the kingdom.”

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Parents, Children, and Church

We cannot over emphasize the responsibility of parents.  We are called to be more faithful than we are able to do on our own.  That is why it is important to remember that we are part of a larger family, the church.  This raises the question, what is the relationship between church and parent as we nurture our children in faith?  The church can become the community where parents receive the support, guidance, and forgiveness that Christian parents require.  Also, the place where children are given the nurture, limits, and story that growth into faith requires.

The church ought to join the parent in prayer for the salvation of children.  When we pray for others to follow Christ no matter what the cost, we do so with the assumption that it is in God’s power to bring them to faith.  Prayer is a bold expression that there is One greater than yourself.  Praying for your children is an honest confession that you are unable to raise children on your own.  Such prayer recognizes that there is no greatness in our parenting skills, but only in God.

Raising children is not so much about parents or children as it is about God.  We are to be always about His business, parenting is no exception.  In fact, the problem with many modern evangelism strategies is that the focus leaves God and becomes business about people.  We are always to be witnesses.  Sometimes we are also parents.  Therefore, we want to include our children in the Gospel story.

While this task falls to the entire community of faith, it is the parent who has the greatest influence.  The natural moments at home provide a great opportunity.  We will transmit our convictions in the ways we talk with children, walk with them, put them to bed, and greet them in the morning.  The Christian family is all of us living, working, eating, drinking, teaching, learning, and growing together.  The relationship between church and parent must be one that encourages children in ways that include them in the story.

Children are not intended to be chosen but to be received.  Children are not achievements, but gifts.  We are not to control them for our own ends.  Nothing so disrupts our tidy, well planned futures.  Nothing so clearly mirrors our best and worst.  Nothing demands from us, humbles us, or gives to us as does the blessed burden of a child.

Some may see children as a worrisome bother to be avoided.  Some feel that children should be avoided because of the uncertainty of the future.  By saying yes to children, we do not demonstrate a faith in the future or faith in our abilities to provide for our children.  Rather, faith in God who holds the future.  Evangelism of our children is not a matter of parental effort.  It is God’s work in which we are privileged to share.

A Strategy for Parents

Our children are being seduced and discipled by the world.  We have learned this over and over by watching others who have preceded us struggle in the effort to encourage children in faith.  How can we respond to these same struggles without watering our witness down to principles to live by or a how to manual?  How do we train our children in a way that they will become Christian and in turn train their own children?  We may find ourselves wishing for a simple program that when completed, results in children that are Christian.  Yet, when honest, we realize there is no such program.  Obviously, we are not the ones who will save our children, but our role is not to be underestimated.

The meeting between parent and child goes on and on, it does not end.  It is imperative that parents take this responsibility seriously and do not take vacations from being a witness to their children.  This is a constant, tireless responsibility.  In this way, parents will communicate what matters most to them.  Do we respond to God or to the world?  Our children will be able to answer that question for us.  What children need are adults who are quite literally crazy for them.

There is nothing novel in this.  Christian parents do not win battles.  They prepare the ground and change the mood toward hope and belief, so that when Christ appears there will be others waiting for Him.  The Christian parent often works quietly.  He or she is committed to Christ’s victory and so is willing to do small things.  The Christian parent rarely does anything big.  Instead, they are always planting suspicion that there is something more than what society perceives to be final.

This is unnatural.  But the methods that recruit people for other kingdoms are not suitable to making the Kingdom of God strong.  A good dose of information is not enough.  Legislation, economy, and technology all fall short.  Unlike other kingdoms with which we are familiar, this one is not built on gadgetry, money, or force.

Parents need to faithfully include their children in the conversation of faith on a regular basis.  What children need to witness are parents who believe more than anything else that a new Kingdom exists.  A Kingdom that is not always visible to the naked eye.  A Kingdom where the sole ruler is the Lord God.  Our method is saturation.  It demands long-term patience.  It demands a belief that nothing is more important.  It demands that we live in a way that demonstrates Jesus as Lord.  It demands that we keep His words constantly before us.  It demands that we talk about them while at home and while away, while lying down for the night and when rising in the morning.  It demands that we teach these words to our children.

Wisdom and Witness

We want our children happy, healthy, and of benefit to others.  We want them to be moral and productive.  We want them to be good citizens.  Yet, none of these good things become our top priority.  The Christian parent desires that children make the decision to live under the authority of the Lord Jesus.  Since that is the case, we want to spend time shaping the behavior of our children, talking with them regularly about how to live.

What is it that parents do to shape the behavior of children?  Wisdom literature suggests that it is everything we do.  Nothing we do is so small that children will not notice.  Perhaps some reflection is in order.  Does our lifestyle allow children to recognize honesty and integrity as a priority?  Do we live in a way to encourage or discourage prejudices?  Do our children witness parents who make proper choices in the practical areas of their lives, like with money?

Are our children learning a lifestyle of convenience?  One where they pursue their own rights?  Or do they learn an ethic that is faithful to the God who has performed great and mighty works?  Have they been taught to listen to His instruction and to keep His commandments?  Are they equipped to pass this wisdom on to the next generation?

Have they realized that true wisdom comes from God?  Do they understand that God is over all – the simple and the complex, the routine and the miraculous, the secular and the religious?  The good news is that sometimes, partly because of us, partly in spite of us, our children respond and come to faith.

Evangelism at Home

Do not underestimate children.  They notice what parents give attention to; they may even ask questions about the things that we find important.  Do not think that they do not know the things we actually believe and the times that we just go through the motions.  As adults, it is our work to be serious enough about the particulars of our faith to pass them along.  Parents will pass along what is important to them.  If it is a priority to the parent, children will notice.  If the Gospel is a priority to us, the kids will catch on.  If we live as if faith is not relevant to “real life”, they will notice that as well.

Evangelism will flow naturally out of the context of everyday lives.  Parenting is a major part of that natural flow.  This is important because evangelism is not a set of formulas or memorized scenarios.  Witness is not something we are called to do nearly as much as it is who we are.  Our children will recognize who we are.  May they grow to recognize that above all else – we are followers of Christ.

Discipleship on the Front Row

Despite much attention given in the area of evangelism, there does not appear to be much emphasis placed on sharing faith with the children that live in our homes.  We are careful to provide good food, stylish clothes, and plentiful activities, but often overlook intentional seeking of ways to share what matters most.  Perhaps we have ideas of what we want our children to become, but have forgotten the real matter – “who does God want them to be?”

We cannot overemphasize the importance for parents to witness in bold ways.  Parents must demonstrate that in a world of real danger, where others appear to have the upper hand, we find our true identity as part of a community that follows God.  Parents need to demonstrate that God is indeed the one who shapes our lives.

The fact is that children will receive faith more readily if they witness their parents demonstrating it in every facet of their lifestyle.  Instructing children in the faith involves an ongoing conversation.  This is to go on whether at home or away from home.  Our worship of God is to shape us so that we will be witnesses that God has changed everything and we are obedient to His desires.  The call to parent is certainly a call to discipleship on the front row.